Rumours.

A rumour is defined as 'information, often a mixture of truth and untruth, passed around verbally' (the freedictionary. com)

Rumours, always have serious consequences because:-

Lots of people will have differing opinions. Some of them can be very strong ones which can and will, influence a lot of other people's opinions. The consequence? People's perception of who you really are will change.

As a girl, what are the best ways to avoid such situations?

Always surround yourself with a group of other girls. It's alright to hang out with other guys, as long as it is on a friend level.

Never entrust yourself to a person of another sex unless you are in a serious committed relationship. This not only has implications for yourself, but also for the guy.

What if you find yourself in such a situation?

If you find it difficult with friends, then talk to a trusted person ie your mum or dad, a best friend etc. But it is important to talk, as it can be really unhealthy to keep it in.

A rumour is a rumour, and they're called that for a reason. Sometimes, its impossible to even know if such a thing is happening. So, what do you do if you think you're in such a situation?

You are your own best friend. Trust the way you feel about the situation. When you're certain about something, follow step two. There is counsel and wisdom in the advice of another. With that being said, make sure it's someone you really trust.

There will be a time and place to deal with the rumour, appropriately.

Remember,

There is wisdom in speaking only what is necessary, in honesty.